What would you do in my situation?

Melissa, this guy is in a relationship so you should stop wasting your time trying to win him over. He had no business watching with you and asking for a mage. As far as I'm concerned he was teasing you and I'm guessing you were not only turned on but hoping something more would happen. Him asking you for a mage and asking you to take your shirt off is very weird. I think he had ideas of putting the moves on you and chickened out at the last minute. Stay away from him honey, and find yourself a new man.